Monday, December 20, 2010
Life is multi dimensional in nature
It's not that difficult to understand the concept really. Imagine a television set in your living room. You are sitting there and watching say the History channel. You are not enjoying it at the moment and you change the channel to Discovery. Now what you see on your screen is the Discovery channel. Soon you get bored and change it to CNN. But what we often do not realise while we are doing this, but we understand the concept immediately when we think about it is that even though we have changed the channel, the show still goes on! Even though we change to Discovery, the History channel remains in the background and the show continues regardless of whether we are watching or not. Same way, Discovery continues when we change it to CNN. So, here we are dancing around different frequencies. In my mind, dimensions are simply different frequencies of existence and not much different from the concept of the TV channels.
Scientists are now open to the idea of several dimensions and even of a multi-dimensional universe called the 'Multiverse'. Read a book called 'Hyperspace' by the Japanese-American physicist Dr. Michio Kaku. It also discusses the concept of a multi-dimensional universe which contains up to around 11 dimensions or even more.
The truth is simple. It's all about dimensions! If you do good, you go to a higher dimension and then higher and higher. If you do bad, you go to a lower dimension and so on. Heaven and hell exist right here, right now, just like the airwaves exist simultaneously but at different frequencies. Heaven and Hell are just different frequencies. There are many heavens and many hells and many in-between worlds.
We are multi-dimensional spiritual beings that currently are in this dimension having a human experience.
There are infinite places in all the dimensions for us to explore and learn and experience all the rich and elaborate creation that the Creator has made. Enjoy it!
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Tsunami Dreams blog
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Eight Morals or Rules - by Palden Dorje (The Buddha Boy)
Saturday, December 04, 2010
Interesting article for fiction writers - how to create a plot for novel writers
Click here to view the article.
Thursday, December 02, 2010
Atomic universes and universal atoms
Think of it. What if our whole universe - including all the galactic clusters, galaxies, stars, planets, moons and everything else in it was just a tiny little atom in comparison with a much larger Macro-universe.
On the other hand, imagine that the tiniest little atom was an entire mini-universe with its own variants of galactic clusters, galaxies, stars, planets, moons but happening at a microscopic scale that is so small that it is not observable to us.
Are these just fantasies? Or is there a possibility that all these things were possible, that existence could be layered into several layers of small within large universes on an unending scale both ways.
There is an episode of Cosmos, where the legendary astrophysicist Dr. Carl Sagan asks a similar question.
What if?
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Pray for peace in Korea
On this dangerous situation, I urge all people to pray for peace. The last thing the world needs is another useless, senseless, bloody war.
Let us hope that the situation cools down without escalating into a full blown war.
Monday, November 22, 2010
President John F. Kennedy - his legacy intact 47 years after his assassination
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| President John F. Kennedy |
Several books, articles and movies (most famous being 'JFK' by Oliver Stone) have depicted this event in detail. All kinds of theories abound about where the assassin fired from and killed the beloved president. But now the more important thing to talk about, in my mind, is not who killed him, why and from where because the fact is that JFK died on that Friday afternoon in Dallas. What is important is to look at the things he said during his two years, ten months and two days as president of the United States.
President Kennedy talked about and worked towards creating a peaceful planet and his presence in the Oval Office during the thirteen crucial days in October 1962 during the Cuban Missile Crisis could possibly be the reason why civilization still exists today. His handling of the situation most certainly prevented a nuclear holocaust in 1962.
Kennedy also talked about going to the moon, exploring the stars, conquering the deserts and the oceans. His speeches even now resonate with the deep desire burning inside hearts to live with a purpose, to do something special for humanity and to serve our nations to the best of our ability. Many of JFK quotations are famous and many of these are from his inaugural address on January 20, 1961, but the passages below are the last few paragraphs of that speech and I would like to quote them:
| "Now the trumpet summons us again—not as a call to bear arms, though arms we need; not as a call to battle, though embattled we are—but a call to bear the burden of a long twilight struggle, year in and year out, "rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation"—a struggle against the common enemies of man: tyranny, poverty, disease, and war itself. | |
| Can we forge against these enemies a grand and global alliance, North and South, East and West, that can assure a more fruitful life for all mankind? Will you join in that historic effort? | |
| In the long history of the world, only a few generations have been granted the role of defending freedom in its hour of maximum danger. I do not shrink from this responsibility—I welcome it. I do not believe that any of us would exchange places with any other people or any other generation. The energy, the faith, the devotion which we bring to this endeavor will light our country and all who serve it—and the glow from that fire can truly light the world. | |
| And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country. | |
| My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man. | |
| Finally, whether you are citizens of America or citizens of the world, ask of us the same high standards of strength and sacrifice which we ask of you. With a good conscience our only sure reward, with history the final judge of our deeds, let us go forth to lead the land we love, asking His blessing and His help, but knowing that here on earth God's work must truly be our own." In particular, I like the last sentence "asking His blessing and His help, but knowing that here on earth God's work must truly be our own." So, today being the 47th anniversary of the day he passed on from this Earth, let us look at the things that matter. What kind of a world do we live in today? What kind of a world do we want to live in? And what can each and every one of us do to play our roles in achieving that goal? |
Tuesday, November 09, 2010
Comments on President Barack H. Obama's address to the Indian Parliament on November 8, 2010
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| President Barack H. Obama |
Friday, November 05, 2010
Documentary on Barack Obama's rise to power
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| President Barack Obama |
This was a very well made documentary and basically is about the people involved in Obama's campaign in his dramatic rise to prominence between 2004-2008. Anybody who doubts their own capability or thinks that because of their colour, religion, gender, etc. they cannot succeed, must watch this documentary.
It portrays the indomitable spirit of a man who despite being African-American., despite having an usual name which rhymes with Osama and has Hussein as a middle-name, despite having very little political experience, managed to capture the imagination of a nation and was elected the 44th President of the United States of America.
Irrespective of whether you are a supporter of Obama or not, who cannot remain unmoved and uninspired by his meteoric rise to power and international super-celebrity status even before he was elected president.
The show features both the highs and the lows of the campaign - the high being Iowa and the low being New Hampshire primaries and the controversy about Obama's pastor. In it you will see how a man who is determined to succeed and does not quit even in the face of the highest challenge is able to overcome all these challenges and succeed.
I would recommend this documentary. I bought it from Crossword at the Select City Walk Mall in Saket, but I am sure that it is available in many other places as well.
Interestingly, I watched this show on the eve of President Obama's arrival in India.
Friday, October 22, 2010
Cosmic 'justice' in a nutshell
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Singapore trip
Though I primarily went to Singapore on business, it was nice that I got to do some shopping, eat at the famous restaurants of Singapore and enjoyed the hospitality of the friendly and helpful Singaporeans.
It is a trip that I will remember always. I recommend Singapore as a nice vacation destination and also I recommend Singapore as a business destination for hassle free business with a very attractive tax structure.
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| A picture of the Singapore skyline I took with my Nikon D90 from my room (50th floor of the Marina Bay Sands Hotel) |
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| (From L-R) - Rohan, myself and Ashok Desai at the Jumbo Restaurant near Clarke Quay having the famous Singapore Chilli Crabs |
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| The Marina Bay Sands Hotel |
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| A building near the Marina Bay Sands Hotel |
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| The Infinity pool at the Sands SkyPark, 57th floor of the Marina Bay Sands Hotel |
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| Clarke Quay on Saturday night |
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Celebrate life, yours and everyone else's!
Today I actually stepped out of the house for the first time since September 6. Cheryll and I went for a walk and I really enjoyed it.
This entire period has given me a much needed rest and time to think about life, love, family, friends and God Almighty. I feel humbled and blessed at the same time knowing how much love and prayers were sent to me during this period. I thank God for all of those people who love me. I thank God for giving me this life. Recovering from an ailment makes you love life even more. I am now fully aware of how important each and every life is.
Though we read in the newspapers, watch the news on TV, radio and the Internet and we notice every single day that there are people being killed, abused, tortured, etc. and we really just associate them with a number, a statistic. This sounds mean, but it is true. '100 killed', '25 killed', etc. But the truth is, these are not just numbers and statistics, these are people like you and me. People with families, people with lives, with friends, with hopes, dreams, ambitions, fears, loves, favorites, beliefs, hobbies, etc. etc.
We need to remember this. Because it seems to me that we are becoming more and more hardened and immune to these things that are going on all around the world. We must never forget that everyone that is lost to violence, crime, disease, poverty, disaster is a living, breathing, thinking human being like you and me. Let us never forget that lives lost are not just statistics on the news. Each one lost is the end of a dream. We must pause and remember and honor those lost.
I feel happy that I was saved. But I also have been reminded of the value of each and every human life. God bless you all and remember next time when you hear or see news about people lost, pause for a moment and honor those who are lost.
Celebrate your life and everyone else's!
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Resource Furniture: Italian-Designed Space Saving Furniture
Monday, August 02, 2010
Phase Drafting your book writing process
This is a good method in which the basic plot and scene structures are decided in advance using phase drafting and then the author can write faster and finish the novel a lot easier without getting 'stuck' in the middle of a chapter or scene, because each scene is already structured out in advance. Some writers do not like to use a structure or outline as they feel it impedes their creativity and bounds a story into a structured box so to say.
However, using a structure is advisable as without one the story can go hay wire and may lead to more difficulties later on. That is why the plot should be thought over before hand and this is where a lot of the 'thinking' goes into. Then once the scene arcs are ready, each scene can be easily expanded. This also makes it easier to plan out a writing schedule as the writing bits have already been created in the form of scenes.
For a nice description of this process visit Phase Drafting When Writing a Book and also Randy Ingermanson's Snow Flake method
Thursday, July 29, 2010
FTP for Mac users - Cyberduck all the way!
Saturday, July 24, 2010
The Grapefruit sized Universe!
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Great sites for photos & prints - Flickr & Snapfish
I also really liked the link-up between Flickr and Snapfish, which is a site where you can print your pictures that you have uploaded onto Flickr. Not only can you print photo prints of varying sizes - you can also print your photos on cups, keychains and other things. Plus you can design and print your own custom made collages, calendars, photobooks, notebooks, etc.
If that weren't enough, you can also have your photos converted into works of art by having them printed on canvas in varying sizes.
All this at a pretty affordable price. Since Snapfish has an Indian site as well, the prices are in Indian Rupees and the delivery is pretty efficient and quick. The canvas print I had made of one of my Lakshmi Statue pictures was nicely packed in a tubular package perfect for canvases.
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| This is the Lakshmi photo that I had printed on canvas. |
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
The bit.ly advantage
This is a utility used to shorten and share your links. The best part is that the same shortened link can be used in your Twitter, Facebook, Blog, Website, etc.
Visit the site and create a free account. I also recommend to use the bit.ly sidebar option that can be integrated with your browser. This is a very good way of creating a shortened link wherever you are on the Net instantly (without going to the bit.ly site). This can be integrated with your twitter account, so when you click the bit.ly sidebar, it opens a window which has the shortened link and allows you to write upto 140 characters to post on Twitter. It works great.
I really recommend bit.ly. Go for it!
Sunday, July 18, 2010
India and the US going up a rising escalator
President Barack Obama and Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh ride an escalator on the way to their bilateral meeting during the G20 Summit in Toronto, Canada, Sunday, June 27, 2010. (Official White House Photo by Pete Souza)
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Poor drainage leads to wastage of water, reservoir needed
It is unacceptable that the Municipal Corporation of Delhi (MCD) and the New Delhi Municipal Council (NDMC), Delhi's two civil bodies are not punished for this debacle. There is no reason on Earth why Delhi's civic bodies cannot do their job in an efficient and transparent manner.
With a complete disregard to the principles of town planning, we have neglected completely to make an efficient drainage system which would lead rainwater into some kind of natural or man-made reservoir.
What is sad about yesterday's deluge is that not only did we get 51 mm of rain that caused havoc, most of it has gone waste. There may be a few environmentally conscious citizens who were able to capture some of the rainwater and I hope they did.
I hope that the authorities will learn something from this and repair the drainage systems and create a water flow network that will allow excess rainwater to be stored and not wasted.
We need desalination plants
The Government of India and every government for that matter needs to subsidise the construction and operation of desalination plants. This will ensure that we have enough water to last for centuries.
Simply saying that desalination plants are too expensive is not acceptable.
Also, as far as India is concerned, water should be on the Union list and not a state subject. It is too important a resource to suffer at the hands of bickering state politicians.
Friday, July 09, 2010
Fun at Bangalore airport
I showed my dad some stuff on Twitter and Facebook. I took a few pictures and uploaded it. He was amazed at how technology has advanced so much that you can take a picture and upload it from anywhere and in seconds the whole world has access to it.
Sunday, July 04, 2010
Various beliefs about Jesus in early Palestine
In response to a question by Rev. Vinod John about various 'Jesus movements' in early Palestine...
Well it is true that there were a plurality of Jesus movements in early Palestine. James the Elder (traditionally believed to be Jesus' brother, also son of Mary) was believed to be the head of one group who considered Jesus as the Jewish Messiah and believed that he was a prophet and not the son of God (The Jewish Messiah so to speak was never thought to be the 'Son of God' in an exclusive sense but rather like the way it says in the Bible that you will be called the 'sons of God'.)
One faction was supposedly headed by Mary Magdalene and was more Essene in nature and belief).
Then you have Peter - Paul group, which actually created the concept of Jesus as exclusive 'Son of God'. It was this faction which prevailed and then later on in the 4th century A.D. prevailed upon Constantine to make Christianity the official religion of the Holy Roman Empire.
It was around this time that the Council of Nicae was convened and certain books were canonised into the Bible as we know it today. Many concepts that existed prior to this, most notably the widespread belief in reincarnation was declared 'heresy'. It was also during this time that Jesus was 'deified' and declared to be God. This was never believed for the first three centuries of Christianity.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Mars and water - Big News and Good news!!
This is great news as it really makes two important things closer to becoming a reality:
1. The discovery of extraterrestrial life - as it is now confirmed, Mars had an ocean a long, long time ago. While we still do not have proof that life of any kind existed there, the general rule is: where there is water, there is life. So, now with both the moon and Mars having been confirmed as having water (the moon even today, Mars in the past) and perhaps Europa of Jupiter and Enceladus of Saturn as well, we have found that water may not be as rare a commodity in the universe as we once thought. This discovery alone, highly increases the probability of life outside of Earth. Perhaps it is now just a matter of time before we have hardcore evidence.
2. Since there are more places where water is or was, it also increases our chances of being able to colonize these worlds in the future. Colonization is an absolute must for the longevity of the human race.
Let's see where we find water next.
Recreating Nostalgia
For over ten days, there were lots of parties, dinners, outings, etc. I had fun like I haven't had in a while. It was great to meet most of my cousins after a long time.
But what struck me the most is what I'll call - recreating nostalgia. You see, my cousins and I spent a lot of time together when we were growing up. That was the time when most of them lived in Delhi and some were scattered in different parts of India. Every summer they would come to Delhi (sometimes I would go to Bombay). But those days are the days I remember with a pang of nostalgia many times. I'm talking about the late 1980s early 1990s.
But over the past fortnight, I felt as is we were 'recreating nostalgia'. Because not only did we relive those fun days of being teenagers and early twenty-somethings, we also seemed to strengthen the bond between us so that we will continue to have better days ahead to remember. We recreated our days of nostalgia and at the same time created another moment in our lives that we will look back nostalgically in the future!
Wednesday, May 05, 2010
On Stephen Hawking's concern about aliens
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Good cheap Mac software substitute for Photoshop and Dreamweaver users
So after discovering a site one day, I was pleased to find that it was made on a software called RapidWeaver, which is made exclusively for Macs. I went to the rapidweaver site - http://www.realmacsoftware.com/rapidweaver/ and downloaded it. After trying it out I am of the opinion that while it lacks much of the real control that Dreamweaver offers for making websites, it is pretty good for making a basic attractive website at a very attractive price - only $79 US.
Then comes the photoshop equivalent. Though I haven't downloaded and tried it as yet, but http://www.pixelmator.com/ seems to have most of the features that Photoshop gives at a very attractive price of $ 59 US. I believe they have a Windows version as well.
So worth a look for Mac users trying to get their hands on some Mac Software.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Shashi Tharoor clean bowled
The nation looked forward to the entry of this person into it's political arena. Here was a man who was a 'super diplomat', a man who was a heartbeat away from becoming the UN Secretary General.
But despite his impeccable credentials and diplomatic record, Tharoor turned out to be a major disappointment. His never-ending tweets (many times with controversial contents) showed a surprising lack of tact and diplomacy. It was really unnecessary for him to have written all these official matters in a hasty and irreverent manner.
The last straw of course being the IPL controversy which led to his resignation.
Is Tharoor out of Indian politics for good? Who knows. But what is for sure is that he needs some serious coaching on how to conduct himself as a minister. A minister is a representative of the government and as such is not supposed to air out his opinions so openly (sad, but true). But Tharoor is still an MP and maybe he could still be a better MP than he was a minister. But if it is proved that there was some corruption involved in the IPL scandal, maybe even his future as an MP could be in doubt.
New blog colour scheme
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Blog lazy!
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Faith, Reticence And Work - Edit Page - Opinion - Home - The Times of India
Prashant Solomon
The Bible tells us that Jesus Christ performed many miracles, including healing the sick and even raising the dead. Christ tells healed people two things: ''According to your faith be it unto you'', and ''your faith hath made thee whole''. Then he charges them by saying, ''Tell no man about what has happened to you.'' Faith has a vital role to play here.
The Roman centurion whose servant was ill had so much faith in Christ that though Christ offered to come to his house the centurion said, ''I am not worthy that you come to my house, but simply say the word and it shall be done. Like I am a man in authority and when I tell my subordinates do this or do that, I know it shall be done.''
Jesus was so impressed by the centurion's faith that he declared to all those assembled there, ''I have never seen so much faith. No, not in Israel.'' Within the hour, the servant had miraculously been healed.
However, there are also some cases in the Bible where Jesus could not cure people ''because of their unbelief. Jesus also said to ''tell no man''. This is so because at times sharing things with others can be counterproductive as other people's envy, doubts, fears and negativity can adversely affect the healed person's mind and could also create some kind of negativity which could hinder the healing or other desire of the seeker as a negative suggestion is also powerful and can choke the flow of positive energy or belief. This is why reticence is important. Claude M Bristol says in his book, The Magic of Believing: "It cannot be too strongly emphasised that you should not give anyone an inkling of your plans or desires. To do so may end disastrously for you.'' Because the negative vibrations that other people can send you could be powerful and can deter your plans. This is perhaps the same reason that Jesus instructs the healed person to ''tell no man''.
When a woman touched the robe of Jesus, she was cured and Jesus asked: "Who touched me for I could feel virtue flowing out of me." Now the word 'virtue' is not the best translation of the original Greek word dynamis which means power or strength. Incidentally, all the verses that talk of Jesus's 'mighty works' also are translations of the same Greek word dynamis. Each time in the original Greek text, it was this word that was actually used. This word is used throughout the New Testament. So there is a kind of power that flows into the faithful, it is this faith that attracts the flow of the healing power and it is this 'power' itself that is the originator of the mighty works of Jesus Christ as described in the Bible. It is likewise lack of faith that blocks the flow of healing power.
The woman believed that Christ would cure her, but she also acted by touching his robe. The centurion had faith in Jesus, but acted by asking Jesus to heal him. There must be some kind of action or request (prayer) on the part of the receiver. ''Ask and it shall be given'', ''seek and you shall find''. While we need to have faith in God, we need to act as well for without action on our part, faith itself is of no use ''For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.''
Sunday, March 07, 2010
Chintels day out at Ambience Mall
On Saturday, March 6, 2010 - we at Chintels officially started off our 25th anniversary celebrations. We plan to have a series of celebrations that will culminate in a 'grand finale' sometime towards the end of this year.
To get the ball rolling, the entire staff of Chintels corporate office had a 'day out' at Ambience Mall in Gurgaon. The day started off at 10:00 am, when we all assembled outside the PVR ticket counter and watched the film 'Atithi, Tum kab jayoge'. As for the film, I would give it a 4 out of 10. Well, this is not supposed to be a film review, so we'll leave it at that.
After this, I bought a new Canon PowerShot SX200 IS from the Reliance electronics store to click some pictures of the event. This was followed by lunch at the food court, where after much deliberation, I decided to have a slice of pepperoni pizza from Sbarro. It was OK, nothing to write home about.
The next thing we did, which was really the highlight of the day as far as the rest of the Chintels people were concerned was the bowling at Blu-O. Wow! We had a blast to say the least! We booked about five lanes and played for about three hours non-stop. It was good fun. Photos of the event are also being posted here.
After that most of the team Chintels left, but I stayed on with my parents, wife, brother and a cousin who was there. We had some wheat beer at the Bavarian (part of Rockman's Beer Island) and then the highlight of the day for me and my brother was that we both bought identical 13" MacBook Pros!
But by the end of it, I was dog tired. My brother drove home and as soon as I reached home, I crashed out! But what a day man. I haven't had so much fun in a long time and I have never spent so much time in a mall on a single day. We were there for about 10 and a half hours!
Monday, February 15, 2010
Where are you in the Milky Way Galaxy?
A little video I made
Saturday, February 06, 2010
Indians first, Indians last
"SRK, Sachin Tendulkar, Rahul Gandhi and the list must keep growing of those people who will stand up to the devisive hooliganism of the Thackerays. India is not a land of Marathis, Gujaratis, Punjabis, Tamilians, Delhiites, etc. It is the land of Indians! We are all members of one body, one family, one India and in a united voice we declare that We The People Of India will fight against the forces of communalism, regionalism, casteism and any other 'ism' that threatens to divide our people. It is time for us to be Indians first and Indians last. Whether Hindu, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, Buddhist or Jew we are Indians. Whether Marathi, Gujarati, Punjabi - we are Indians. Whether Dalit, Brahmin, Yadav or Jat - we are Indians and this is all we need to remember. Jai Hind!"
Monday, January 11, 2010
Tribute to my grandfathers
January 10, 2010
To all the members of our family that could not be with us today, I first want to say that you are all missed. We wish you could be here, but we understand that coming here on such short notice is difficult. For your benefit, we are going to upload the photos and videos of this event on the Internet soon. To those that could make it, I thank you.
In this month of January, in the year 1910 – (remember this was one hundred years ago before the First World War, before the Titanic sunk) – two men were born. They were named Ezekiel Henry Solomon on January 13 and Samuel Prem Dass, or "Sammy" as he was affectionately called, on January 31.
Ezekiel and Sammy became friends later on in life. They were blessed with great wives namely Nora and Helen and many lovely children. Ezekiel had 9 children, 14 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren. Sammy had 4 children, 7 grandchildren and 7 grand grandchildren so far. Unfortunately, Ezekiel never saw any of his grandchildren and Sammy also passed away on my 4th birthday, so my memories of him are not very clear, although I remember that we loved each other a lot and I am told that I use to help him up the stairs because he had some problem in his leg.
Both my grandfathers lived through a very eventful era of history. They saw two bloody World Wars and also India's freedom struggle.
Some time in the 1960s, Ezekiel's third son fell in love with Sammy's third daughter. They got married in 1971 and the next year, their bloodlines mixed together in me. They became my grandfathers and I became their grandson. 12 years later, long after they were both gone, their bloodlines mixed once again in my younger brother.
Both my grandfathers saw a lot of history. Some of it filled with the bloodshed of two World Wars. But like there is sometimes blood in history, there is also history in blood.
Every drop of our blood has a history. It is filled with the genetic information passed down over many generations written in the form of DNA. Written in the language of God. Somewhere encoded within our DNA is the signature and instincts of our forefathers. This is the information through which we are made. So we see that your ancestors are with you not just in the mind, the heart, the soul, but also they are with you in your blood through their DNA.
As the generations progress, more blood is mixed from different blood lines and this continues. It is like during the Holy Communion, when we drink the blood of Christ and eat his body, we are becoming One not only with him, but with each other. We are One in the blood of Christ and likewise we are part of One body. I Corinthians 12 talks about how each part of a body is important. We cannot say that the eye is more important than the hand or that the heart is more important than the brain. Each organ has its role. But together they form an organization, or a body. Each of us is a part of larger Body that we call a family. Each member is unique with their own talents. We are therefore not supposed to compete with each other, but complement each other. We all have our own talents. My brother's talent in music is his. My talent in writing is mine. We will never compete with each other, but complement each other's talent as something that enriches and strengthens the Body of our family.
I met a man recently who had travelled to many countries. He has seen many things including bloody wars. I asked him, what is the one thing that you have learned from all your travels and experiences. Without any hesitation, he said "Family". He said I realized that it is your family that will always be with you. It is your family that gives you strength, he said. You are forever entwined together as family, whether you want it or not, even if you do not always get along, you can never change the fact that you are family.
We get so busy today in our lives that we do not take out enough time for family. There is a story about a six-year-old boy who asked his father how much he made in an hour. The father said 20 dollars and the boy offered his father 20 dollars to come home an hour early, so he could have dinner with him at home. We are so caught up with work, money, fame, success or power that we sometimes forget in the end – who is it all for? As Robin S. Sharma asks in his book with the same title – who will cry when you die?
We are a living testimony to our ancestors and also living blueprints for our descendants. We have a responsibility to both – to our ancestors – to honour their memory, to complete their unfinished goals, to maintain their heritage, to learn from both their triumphs and tragedies, successes and failures, hopes and fears, sins and virtues.
To our descendants – we have the responsibility to live our lives in a way that they will be as proud of us 100 years later, as we are of our forebears. We have a responsibility to them also to try to leave for them a better world than what we were given.
In closing, I will narrate a small little story:
A man asked the wise philosopher: "We often say that our predecessors were wiser than we. But at the same time we criticize their comments, often rejecting them and claiming that the truth rests with us. How is this possible?"
The wise philosopher responded: "Who sees further a dwarf or a giant? Surely a giant for his eyes are situated at a higher level than those of the dwarf. But if the dwarf is placed on the shoulders of the giant who sees further? ... So too we are dwarfs sitting on the shoulders of giants. We master their wisdom and move beyond it. Due to their wisdom we grow wise and are able to say all that we say, but not because we are greater than they."
Sunday, January 10, 2010
The meaning of the word "FAMILY"
Many of us are neglecting of the word FAMILY especially those who are working and not giving too much attention to people beside them. I personally experienced the same thing but when I've read the story below, it all change my perspective about the people around me. It is a story of a son who wants to buy the time of his father. A very touching story, A simple but very effective in changing the person's life. I got it from an email to me, I don't know where this story originated so I consider this as a God's Letter to all the people who do not know the real meaning of the FAMILY. Here it goes....
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5 year-old son waiting for him at the door. "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
"Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man.
"Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
"That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" the man said angrily.
"I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?" pleaded the little boy.
"If you must know, I make $20 an hour."
“Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down.
Looking up, he said, "Daddy, may I please borrow $10 from you?"
The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behaviour."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
"Are you asleep, son?" He asked.
"No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
"I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier," said the man, "It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $10 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.
"Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled.
"Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied.
"Daddy, I have $20 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."
Share this story with someone you like.... But even better, share $20 worth of time with someone you love. It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family an unwise investment indeed.
So what is the moral of the story???? Don't work too hard... and know who you are working for...and....you know what's a family?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER, (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
Saturday, December 12, 2009
What the hell was the strange blue spiral over Oslo, Norway the night of Obama's Nobel Prize awarding ceremony?
Friday, December 11, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Salahis gatecrashing White House dinner was a threat to Prime Minister Manmohan Singh also
It is surprising that the US Secret Service allowed this serious breach of security.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Water on the moon
It is also a big step towards the establishment of some kind of permanent establishment on the moon.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Wealth Lessons From Joseph Kennedy
Interesting tips on making money from the life of Joseph P. Kennedy, father of US President John F. Kennedy.
Sunday, November 01, 2009
Prashant Solomon (prasol) on Twitter
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Investing wisely in the stock market in India - some rules to follow
- Invest for the long term - investing should always be done with a long term view in mind (between three to five years is a good time span). Investing for the long term allows enough time to sway through the volatility that often accompanies the stock market. However, it is also important to keep investing regularly as well. The power of compound growth can only occur over a long period of time. This approach also creates discipline in the investor.
- Invest regularly in small amounts - investing should be a way of life - just like exercise - and should be done regularly. Instead of investing a large amount at a time, it is better to invest small amount at regular intervals of time. A monthly investment is a popular option. This helps in neutralizing the effects of volatility in the market, so that you get more shares when the price is low and less shares when the price is high. Over time, the average cost of accumulation of shares levels out. This also creates a sense of discipline.
- Invest in businesses not just stocks - when you invest in a company's shares, you are buying a little piece of ownership in that company. Buy a business, not just a stock. This approach will make you more aware of the type of business the company is engaged in, its growth prospects and the quality of the company's management. The management of a company is important and an investor should be familiar with at least a few of the people behind the company. This is not a rocket science though. You do not have to know the complete ins and outs of the company, but you should have a fair idea based on research, news items, word of mouth and plain old common sense. Investing in stocks ultimately is about investing in the future prospects of that company and it is always necessary to know something about the nature of business, the products or services, the growth history, management and future plans of the company.
- Do your own research - with the growth of the Internet, it is now possible to do research on companies very easily. Sites like Google finance, yahoo finance, money.rediff.com, moneycontrol.com and economictimes.com are good places to start. The basic things to look at are the PE ratio, growth of EPS, book value, growth of profits, profit & loss, dividend paying history among others. It is better to shortlist companies based on your own research. Look for companies that have lower PE ratios. A company with a low PE ratio generally means that the company's shares are available at a good bargain. However, there are some exceptions. Not every company with a low PE ratio is a good investment. The PE ratio is more about how much of a bargain you are getting on your purchase and does not necessarily indicate anything about the quality of the company itself. But it's a good place to start, along with looking at the profit growth over a few years and growth of EPS (Earnings per share) [PE ratio by the way is -- price of the share/EPS].
- Never invest based on tips - for every 'tip' there are more than a thousand people who lost money. Never invest in any company based on a tip alone. Information is everywhere, but there is also a lot of misinformation. Tips are like rumours, they spread like wildfire and could be with some vested interest behind them. Never believe them. Tips are different from suggestions or tips based on some bona fide research and suggestions received through such sources can be explored by doing further research and then considered.
- Invest only risk capital - never invest money in the stock market unless you have a comfortable amount of money saved up in a bank account. Money invested in the stock market should only be that which is left over after paying all the monthly dues such as children's school fees, rent, bills, etc. As mentioned earlier, invest small amounts regularly.
- Know the risks before investing - while stock markets can be very rewarding, there is an inherent risk in investing in the markets. Stock prices can crash and leave most of your capital wiped out. Know this before investing. If you are willing to take this risk, only then invest. However, like all risks you can say that the greatest risk of all is not taking any risk. Higher the risk, higher the return. Know this and be prepared for what goes with the territory.
- Diversify your investments - Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Buy stocks of companies across sectors. Do not over-diversify. Scattering your capital across too many stocks is as bad as not diversifying. A basket of 10-15 stocks is ideal.
- Book profits regularly - it is important to book profits at regular intervals. Whenever your investment reaches a predefined target, it is good to book partial or full profits. You can always buy again later at a lower price. No money can be made until you sell. The idea is to buy low, sell high and then repeat.
- Cut losses - always remember not to hold on to losing stocks for too long unless you have a very good reason to. The feeling of not wanting to be wrong is not a good reason. We all learn from mistakes and everyone including investing legends like Warren Buffet and Rakesh Jhunjhunwala also have made their share of mistakes. Learn to acknowledge your mistake and cut your losses by selling your losing shares. Consider it as a price for tuition.
- Patience is a virtue - small drops form an ocean, fortresses are made brick by brick and so it is with building wealth. Do not entertain dreams of becoming rich overnight. Start investing early and regularly and keep doing it over years. It takes years to build wealth. Over years you can accumulate good quality stocks that will earn you great riches. But it takes time. Do not be impatient. Enjoy the ride.
- Enjoy yourself - investing is a lot of fun and everyone has their own style of investing and their own choice of portfolios. Invest in companies that you are interested in and enjoy the ride. Remember this always - never let success get to your head and never take failure to your heart. Keep trying and enjoy!
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Prashant_Solomon
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Bangalore visit
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
The children of the Mughal empire
Tales of Akbar and Birbal are an old time favourite. The Mughal emperors hold a certain grand aura about them that most other kings, queens, emperors and empresses of the world do not match up to (with the possible exceptions of Ashoka, Alexander the Great, Victoria and maybe a few more).
Notable Bollywood films like Mughal-e-Azam and more recently Jodha Akbar have captured the story of the greatest Mughal emperor Akbar in reasonable detail. The Mughals are a part of our history and of our modern day culture.
But what ever happened to them? We know that Bahadur Shah Zafar was the "last Mughal emperor" although the empire had been decaying for one and a half centuries before him. This is a link to an interesting story I found about the conditions that the last Mughal emperor's descendants are living in today. I thought you might find it interesting.
http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/index.php/world/31340-mughal-emperors-descendants-penniless
Friday, September 18, 2009
Cattle class and Shashi Tharoor

OK, it is now a matter of debate. Was Mr. Shashi Tharoor, India's minister of state for external affairs right or wrong when he made his famous 'cattle class' tweet? He justified his online remark by saying that he was referring to the way economy class passengers are treated by the airlines. But then again, Mr. Tharoor follows his 'cattle class' phrase with 'the other Holy cows' in reference to other politicians like Mrs. Sonia and Mr. Rahul Gandhi who are also on this so-called 'austerity drive'.
Whether what Mr. Tharoor says is true or not, he needs to realise that while politicians and ministers also enjoy freedom of speech and expression under Article 19 of the Constitution of India, they also have certain duties as public servants and one of these would be to respect the actions and views of their political parties and government and think twice before tweeting. Mr. Tharoor needs to understand that he is now no longer a 'normal tweeting citizen', he is a minister in the government of India and needs to refrain from making such silly remarks that too for the whole world to read. Considering that he worked in the United Nations and almost become the Secretary-General, who needs to learn a little more about diplomacy towards his party and to the Indian public.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Delhi lashed by rains. Roads jammed
Why? Obviously, the drainage system in Delhi is an utter failure. Is anyone cleaning the drains? We pay taxes to the government and so money should not be the problem. Maybe the problem is with honesty and the sense of duty in our public servants - which include the safai karamcharis by the way!
The next time you want to walk on the moon and visit one of the craters, don't bother applying to NASA. A walk down one of the roads in Delhi will give you a good enough idea. The roads have craters in them, obviously from the poor quality of materials being used in them.
I believe next year there is a certain Commonwealth Games happening in this same city. God forbid if it rains. I know for a fact that we will not win the Gold Medal for civic infrastructure.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
We are spiritual beings
- Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
UberTwitter is cool
Indian real estate begins to pick up
Is this the beginning of a new 'bull market'. I think it is. Recent market surveys indicate that the NCR will see a surge of demand in residential real estate in the next five years. The study indicates that there will be a demand of about 1.5 billion square feet of residential real estate alone in the NCR. This is good news for real estate developers. Let's wait and watch.









